The Adventures We Take, The Memories We Make

November 1, 2024

According to the Oxford Dictionary, a vacation is “an extended period of leisure and recreation, especially one spent away from home or traveling.” I don’t know about you, but that definition doesn't capture the reality of most of my vacations. While I've mastered the art of leaving home and traveling, I’ve failed miserably in the leisure department. Vacations can be downright stressful. Planning, budgeting, packing, considering pets, navigating traffic, dealing with canceled flights, and facing a pile of emails upon return are just a few challenges. Add the obsessive compulsion to do as many activities as possible, and you have the perfect recipe for anything but relaxation. When my four children were young, I dreaded the horrendous task of packing everything they’d need for the week. With limited funds, our packing often included a tent and all the necessary camping supplies. On one particularly memorable camping trip, our site was inconveniently located at the bottom of a downhill slope. After we unpacked and headed to the beach, a storm blew in. A torrential downpour ensued, and the water had nowhere to go but down the hill and into our tent. When we returned, we found all our belongings floating in about a foot of water. Hanging everything on tree branches and on top of the car to dry, we must have looked like the Beverly Hillbillies. Learn More

Sometimes It's Okay Not to Be Okay

November 1, 2024

Have you ever had a time in your life when you just weren’t, okay? If we're honest, we all have. This Monday morning, I'm in that space. I'm not terrible, not falling to pieces, no tears—just not okay. As I self-diagnose and spend some time in introspection, I think I've discovered some answers. For starters, I tend to cram a plethora of activities into a minuscule amount of time. Anyone else have that tendency? It’s like trying to fit all my Aldi shopping bags into one little bag to save space in my car. It can be done, but my bags aren't in the greatest shape when I unwedge them and pull them out. Similarly, I know I’m not in the greatest shape when I fit too much into my schedule. It’s too easy to say yes to too many things and end up overcommitted, spread out thinner than butter on toast. This often happens when it comes to my grandchildren. They're so precious to me, as I’m sure yours are to you, and I don't want to miss a single opportunity to be with them. Unfortunately, mine aren’t local, so visits require a commute. Over five weeks this summer, I made three weekend trips to Philadelphia and one to Mechanicsburg, with just one weekend at home. Sound familiar? Learn More

The Dog Days of Summer

August 1, 2024

The Dog Days of Summer Yes, there is such a thing as "The Dog Days of Summer," and boy, have we been experiencing it lately! Just today, the backyard thermometer read 107 degrees! When I think of that phrase, I envision a dog contentedly sitting in front of a fan, head raised, with ears blowing in the breeze, attempting to cool off. For both animals and humans alike, it is a time when we become tired, irritable, and downright hard to live with. Arguments break out over the smallest, most insignificant things. We leave our air-conditioned offices only to enter our stifling cars with their flesh-burning seats, sit in road construction traffic, and finally arrive at home before our air conditioners even begin to deliver cold air. According to the Farmer’s Almanac, the “Dog Days of Summer” span from July 3rd to August 11th. In ancient Greek and Roman history, this period was associated with drought, bad luck, and restlessness, causing people to act irrationally and go a bit crazy. They believed the intense heat was due to the rising of the constellation Canis major, “The Great Dog,” which includes the brightest star in the sky besides the sun. This star was thought to cause the heat, hence the term “Dog Days.” Although this belief has been disproven, the term stuck and is still used today. Learn More