Loneliness at Christmas: A Season for Compassion & Connection
January 24, 2025
Christmas, as I contemplated writing about this topic, I wondered: what is there to say that has not already been said? I, along with countless others, have written on this subject many times. I had to pause to reflect on what fresh words I could offer about this much-anticipated holiday season. The lens I have chosen to compose through is not necessarily a rose-colored one, but an honest and important one. While many of us look forward to this season filled with family, friends, and hustle and bustle, what about those who do not? What about those who are alone or lonely? Yes, there is indeed a difference. One can find themselves alone and relish the solitude, but not feel lonely, just as one can experience loneliness while surrounded by others.
During a low time in my life, I experienced this as I found myself in a room filled with holiday revelers who had no idea how much I was hurting inside. I spent the evening smiling and chatting with those in the room, but no one cut through my facade to see just how isolated and alone I was feeling. This experience reminded me of the story of the birth of Christ. Can you imagine how alone this unwed mother must have felt when she discovered she was carrying the Christ child? Who would believe her? I am sure she even doubted that her betrothed, Joseph, would believe her. In fact, upon learning the news of her pregnancy, his first reaction was to divorce Mary. Thankfully, an angel came to Joseph and explained that this child was conceived by the Holy Spirit and that Mary had not been unfaithful to him.
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